How to Want Better Things

Your Life, Your Choices, and the Stakes of This Century.

Your Life, Your Choices, and the Stakes of This Century.

A Life at Work

22 years old

Graduate

Collects a diploma and a faint sense of obligation to make it mean something.

25 years old

First Serious Job

Learns that “making a difference” and “making partner” sound similar if you say them fast enough.

Age 33

Promotion

Attends mindfulness training sponsored by the company causing the stress.

Age 45

Midlife Pivot

Hires a coach to rediscover intrinsic motivation.

Age 65

Retirement

Finally achieves work-life balance by removing the first half.

A Life at Work

22 years old

Graduate

Collects a diploma and a faint sense of obligation to make it mean something.

25 years old

First Serious Job

Learns that “making a difference” and “making partner” sound similar if you say them fast enough.

Age 33

Promotion

Attends mindfulness training sponsored by the company causing the stress.

Age 45

Midlife Pivot

Hires a coach to rediscover intrinsic motivation.

Age 65

Retirement

Finally achieves work-life balance by removing the first half.

Cover of the book How to Want Better Things — a guide to meaningful careers, ethical ambition, and Effective Altruism.
Cover of the book How to Want Better Things — a guide to meaningful careers, ethical ambition, and Effective Altruism.
Cover of the book How to Want Better Things — a guide to meaningful careers, ethical ambition, and Effective Altruism.

About the Book

About the Book

How to Want Better Things explores why so many people spend years building careers that look impressive but feel hollow, and offers a different approach to thinking about ambition.


Drawing on behavioral economics, moral philosophy, and psychology, the book examines a question most career advice avoids: what if you're working hard toward goals you never actually chose? We absorb what success looks like from the people around us, chase whatever feels prestigious or safe, and wake up years later wondering why none of it feels like enough.


This book argues that desire isn't fixed. You can learn to want things that actually matter. Not through vague inspiration about purpose, but through concrete frameworks for evaluating which problems need solving and where your skills could make a real difference. The kind of work that might justify getting to choose what to do with your life in the first place.


Whether you're early in your career and trying to avoid spending a decade on the wrong path, or you've already built something impressive and are wondering if any of it matters, this book provides practical tools for redirecting ambition toward work that won't feel hollow in twenty years.


Because it turns out you can train yourself to want better things. The question is whether you will.

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Endorsements & Early Praise

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For Journalists and Media

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How to Want Better Things is a book about how to make choices that actually matter.
Written by students from Oxford, Harvard, and Middlebury, it explores how people can find purpose in their work and use their talents to do more good in the world.

How to Want Better Things is a book about how to make choices that actually matter.
Written by students from Oxford, Harvard, and Middlebury, it explores how people can find purpose in their work and use their talents to do more good in the world.

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How to Want Better Things is a book about how to make choices that actually matter.
Written by students from Oxford, Harvard, and Middlebury, it explores how people can find purpose in their work and use their talents to do more good in the world.

How to Want Better Things is a book about how to make choices that actually matter.
Written by students from Oxford, Harvard, and Middlebury, it explores how people can find purpose in their work and use their talents to do more good in the world.

How to Want Better Things

How to Want Better Things

Your Life, Your Choices, and the Stakes of This Century.

Your Life, Your Choices, and the Stakes of This Century.